Love is like a paper boat in a stream. It must be given the space to move freely and be guided by the currents and direction of the winds. If we attempt to contain it by a string, its delicate sails will tear and so its life purpose destroyed.
We all have our individual paths to walk. To love does not mean to control nor to possess. To truly love is to allow the other to go forward and chase the currents of ones heart.
Pure love comes from two complete individuals sailing different streams and in time landing in the great beautiful ocean side by side.